All tagged forever active lifestyle
Hey there. For over two decades I’ve watched the fitness and weight loss industry market against people’s insecurities. They tell you that if you change your body, you’ll finally feel good about yourself. The problem is, most of us know from experience that even when the weight comes off, the self-doubt and negative thoughts don’t automatically disappear. That’s why I’ve built an inside/out approach.
Hey there. When I think about what really makes a fitness or weight loss journey sustainable, it isn’t the new program or the latest challenge. It’s the boring stuff. The daily showing up, eating your food, doing your exercise, managing your stress, and making deliberate choices. That part of the process doesn’t get a lot of attention because it isn’t exciting, but it’s the most important piece.
Hey there. There are times in life when everything feels like it’s going smoothly, and there are times when it all goes sideways. If you’ve been on a weight loss or fitness journey for a while, you know exactly what I mean. There are days when you’re just not feeling it, and sometimes those days turn into weeks, months, or even longer.
Hey there. We live in a culture that loves the idea of a fresh start. In life, there is a time and place for drawing that line and saying, “I’m going in a new direction.” But in fitness, the way “fresh starts” are often presented can actually work against us.
Hey there. I’ve seen it happen over and over again. People start a new fitness program and immediately begin rearranging their life to fit the demands of that program. At first, it might feel exciting. You’re following the “best” plan, you’re motivated, and you’re ready to commit. Thing is, if the plan doesn’t truly fit your life and your preferences, it’s only a matter of time before the excitement fades and frustration takes its place.
Hey there. For years, I believed that the only way to succeed with weight loss was to find the perfect plan and follow it exactly. The way the fitness industry presents it, there is always a “right” program and if you cannot make it work, there must be something wrong with you. I spent a lot of time trying to fit my life into someone else’s plan and wondering why I could not stay consistent.
Hey there. For a long time, I approached weight loss with an all-or-nothing mindset. I was either completely “on” and following a plan perfectly, or I was “off” and feeling like I had failed. Over time, I learned that this way of thinking was holding me back more than it was helping me. That’s when I started building my foundation around my preferences, and it has completely changed the way I approach eating, exercise, and my active lifestyle.
Hey there. If you’re on a weight loss journey, I want to remind you of something most people in this space won’t say… you already have what you need. You’ve been doing this for a while. You’ve tried different plans. You’ve seen what works and what doesn’t. And even though it might not feel like it, your experience is your advantage.
Hey there. Most people think health and fitness have to be exciting all the time. Social media is full of dramatic workout clips, extreme diets, and transformation stories that make it seem like every day should feel like a big moment. But the truth is, the real progress happens in the boring, ordinary days. And that’s actually something worth celebrating.
Hey there. For most of my life, “normal” in the weight loss space meant feeling anxious about food, guilty about rest days, and insecure every time I looked in the mirror. And honestly, I’ve had enough of that.
Hey there. Weight loss is emotional. I think that is something we can all agree on. There’s history tied up in it, and there are feelings that surface every time we step on the scale, try on clothes, or think back to the messages we’ve heard about our bodies for years. I’ve spent much of my life, like many of you, being aware of my body and trying to change it. What I’ve learned is that the key isn’t to ignore those emotions, but to honor them and then create systems where emotions don’t run the show.
Hey there. When it comes to eating, exercising, and making this stuff part of your life, you will figure it out. You might not feel like it yet, especially if you’ve spent years on and off different programs. But you will. And when it clicks, you’ll realize that this has always been about taking care of yourself. That’s it.
Hey there. When it comes to weight loss, most people focus only on the actions. The workouts. The meals. The steps. But what we often overlook is how our support system and mindset shape the entire journey. Not just the results, but how we feel about ourselves throughout the process. That support system impacts how you view maintenance too... because the way you're losing the weight is the way you're going to have to keep it off.
Hey there. When it comes to fitness and weight loss, and especially when you get into maintenance, there’s one truth I keep coming back to… You are the expert on you.
Hey there. I want to talk about something I hear all the time in the fitness world. People say that if you’re not getting the results you want, it must mean you don’t want it bad enough. Let me tell you, that’s just not true.
Hey there. For a long time, I thought my past defined my future. Especially when it came to health and fitness. I spent decades bouncing from program to program, always chasing a goal weight, a certain body comp, or some idea of what would finally make me feel good enough. But the truth is, our past doesn’t have to dictate where we go from here.
Hey there. I want you to know something really important today. You can’t mess this up. Once you understand how to build health and fitness from an inside/out approach, there’s no failing because it becomes part of who you are.
Hey there. If you’ve started and stopped your weight loss journey more times than you can count, I want you to know this time can be different. It’s not about forcing yourself to stick to a strict meal plan or punishing workouts you hate. It’s about taking an inside/out approach and designing a lifestyle around what you actually enjoy and what you’ve already learned along the way.
Hey there. I see fitness as a puzzle with unlimited pieces. Every food choice, training style, and mindset practice can slide into place when the timing is right. I picture a giant toolbox that is always expanding. Today I might reach for strength circuits and higher protein meals. Tomorrow I could lean on gentle walks and mindful eating. Nothing is off limits. The question is always How does this fit my life right now.
Hey there. One of my biggest frustrations in the fitness industry is how often professionals talk at people instead of with them. If you've been on your health journey for a while, you probably know exactly what I mean. It’s that tone where someone tells you what you should do, without ever asking what you’ve already tried or what you actually prefer.
