“Things fall into place when you take ownership of your life and focus on what’s within your control. Yes, there are plenty of things not within your control but they’ll work themselves out.”
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Hey there. If you’ve been following along for any length of time, you’ve probably heard me talk about the “AFs” before. These are the three Always & Forever traits that I believe form the foundation for a sustainable health and fitness journey. They are Resilient AF, Confident AF, and Consistent AF. This framework has helped me stay grounded in my own process, and it’s one of the biggest things I try to pass on to others.
Hey there. If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the last five years, it’s that sustainable change with food doesn’t come from someone handing you a meal plan. It doesn’t come from tracking every bite or living in fear of certain foods. It comes from getting honest with yourself. About what you like. About how food fits into your day. About your emotions. And about how life shifts and how your preferences shift with it.
Hey there. You’ve probably heard it before. “The gym is my therapy.” I’ve even said it myself. And while I understand where that phrase comes from, I want to be clear about something. The gym is a powerful tool for your mental and emotional health, but it is not therapy.
Hey there. You’ve probably heard this before. The best program is the one you can stick with. It sounds obvious. But when you really start to unpack it, there’s so much depth in that simple statement.
Hey there. What if you appreciated your body at every stage of your journey? Not just when you hit a certain goal, not just when you looked a certain way, but all the time. I know that sounds like a completely different approach from what you’ve probably been told, but it can change everything.
Hey there. I used to spend a lot of time chasing what I thought was the “optimal” way to approach weight loss and fitness. Like many of you, I followed the advice of people who looked a certain way or quoted research studies that sounded really convincing. And for a while, I thought that was what I needed. If I could just find the best way to do it, I’d finally be successful.
Hey there. For a long time, self-deprecating humor was my thing. I’d make the jokes first. I’d be the one to point out my flaws before anyone else could. I told myself that if people were laughing with me, they weren’t laughing at me. But what I eventually realized is that every time I did that, I chipped away at my own self-worth.
Hey there. One of the biggest reasons people struggle to follow through on their goals is because they’re trying to take on too much, too fast. I’ve seen it over and over again. Someone wants to make a change, and instead of starting small, they try to overhaul everything at once. It works for a few days… maybe a week. Then the overwhelm hits. Then the doubt sets in. And then it stops.
Hey there. good thing. Because the truth is, no single method works for everyone all the time. What we really need to focus on is building a mix of tools that works for us right now... and being open to the idea that mix might change over time.
Hey there. For a long time, I felt like everything I heard about weight loss and fitness was based on absolutes. You can eat this, but not that. You have to follow this plan, but don’t even think about doing anything else. It was all about rigid rules, strict expectations, and either being “on” or “off.” And when that’s the only narrative you hear, it’s easy to believe that’s the only way forward.
Hey there. Sometimes we need a break. That’s something I was reminded of recently. I had a couple of days where I just took a step back. My usual morning routine is something I do seven days a week with only minor tweaks on the weekends. But around lunchtime Friday, I made the decision to chill. Saturday was more of the same. Family was visiting and I gave myself permission to slow down.
Hey there. For years I’ve watched the same dynamic play out in the fitness space. Coaches put out content that says “you just have to do it” and their audience either gets motivated for a moment or feel guilty and stop altogether. I’ve even said that phrase myself in the past. But here’s the thing… it’s way more complicated than that.
Hey there. For a long time, I thought carbs were the problem. If I could just cut them out, I would finally lose the weight and feel better. But what I didn’t realize back then was that carbs were not the enemy. In fact, they can be one of your best allies when it comes to weight loss, weight management, and overall satisfaction with the way you eat.