Hey there. We’ve all been told that weight loss should happen fast. Everywhere we look we see messages that say the quicker we lose weight the better. I fell into that trap too. For years I thought if I could just get to my goal weight faster I’d finally feel good enough. But you know what really happens when you try to go full speed all the time? You burn out. You start. You stop. You restart. And before you know it you’re in the same exact cycle you’ve been stuck in for years.
Read MoreHey there. I’ve learned that setting weekly goals for weight loss isn’t about pushing yourself to exhaustion, it’s about building a structure that works with your life instead of against it. For years I tried the “go all in” approach, the one where you set huge goals and feel like you’re failing the second you don’t hit them perfectly. That way of thinking left me frustrated and burned out. What changed everything for me was learning how to set up goals in a way that felt calm, repeatable, and effective.
Read MoreHey there. Lately I’ve been thinking about the question that doesn’t get asked enough in the fitness and weight loss space. What do you really want?
Read MoreHey there. For most of my life, “normal” in the weight loss space meant feeling anxious about food, guilty about rest days, and insecure every time I looked in the mirror. And honestly, I’ve had enough of that.
Read MoreHey there. There was a time when I let other people’s problems weigh me down. Not just emotionally, but in a way that pulled me away from the goals I had set for myself. The truth is, it wasn’t really about them. It was about what I was choosing to carry. And once I realized that I was taking on things that weren’t mine to hold, I could finally start to let them go.
Read MoreHey there. When life gets hard, doubt shows up fast. It tells you that you’re not ready, not strong enough, and not capable. It piles on top of every other stressor and tries to convince you that you’re stuck. But I’m here to remind you that belief in yourself is not something you earn after months of grinding. It’s something you decide.
Read MoreHey there. Weight loss is emotional. I think that is something we can all agree on. There’s history tied up in it, and there are feelings that surface every time we step on the scale, try on clothes, or think back to the messages we’ve heard about our bodies for years. I’ve spent much of my life, like many of you, being aware of my body and trying to change it. What I’ve learned is that the key isn’t to ignore those emotions, but to honor them and then create systems where emotions don’t run the show.
Read MoreHey there. When it comes to eating, exercising, and making this stuff part of your life, you will figure it out. You might not feel like it yet, especially if you’ve spent years on and off different programs. But you will. And when it clicks, you’ll realize that this has always been about taking care of yourself. That’s it.
Read MoreHey there. If you’ve lost the weight you wanted to lose, I want to start by saying congratulations. That’s a huge accomplishment. You’ve succeeded at something that many people are told they’ll never be able to do. And if you’ve maintained that weight loss for any stretch of time, months or years, you’ve continued to beat the odds. But now comes the real question… what’s next?
Read MoreHey there. One thing that has come up again and again on my own journey, and in coaching others, is how we deal with obstacles. In weight loss. In fitness. In life. The challenges are going to show up. What matters more than the challenge itself is how you respond. That response impacts your progress, sure, but it impacts your mental and emotional well-being even more.
Read MoreHey there. For a long time, I approached fitness with urgency. I would push myself through streak challenges, try to eat perfectly, and stack habits like building blocks that I hoped would fix everything. But over time I realized something critical. The habits themselves aren’t the full solution. What drives those habits matters more than anything.
Read MoreHey there. When it comes to weight loss, most people focus only on the actions. The workouts. The meals. The steps. But what we often overlook is how our support system and mindset shape the entire journey. Not just the results, but how we feel about ourselves throughout the process. That support system impacts how you view maintenance too... because the way you're losing the weight is the way you're going to have to keep it off.
Read MoreHey there. When most people think about weight loss, they picture maintenance as some far-off dream. It’s this idea that once they hit their goal, everything will get easier and less structured. But the truth is, maintenance should not look that different from what you're doing now. You might be able to scale back a workout or swap out a meal, but the day-to-day should stay pretty similar.
Read MoreHey there. When it comes to fitness and weight loss, and especially when you get into maintenance, there’s one truth I keep coming back to… You are the expert on you.
Read MoreHey there. If you’ve been on and off a weight loss journey for years or even decades, I want to share some real talk that might finally help you break the cycle and build something that lasts. I’ve been there myself, and one of the biggest shifts I made was realizing that whatever I do to lose weight now is also what I’m going to have to keep doing when I’m maintaining my weight. That’s not exactly news, but how we approach it can change everything.
Read MoreHey there. I want to talk about something I hear all the time in the fitness world. People say that if you’re not getting the results you want, it must mean you don’t want it bad enough. Let me tell you, that’s just not true.
Read MoreHey there. What fuels your workouts? I’m not just talking about the food you eat, though that matters too. I mean the real fuel behind why you show up day after day. Are you doing it because you want to prove someone wrong? Are you carrying around anger, bitterness, or the idea of getting a revenge body?
Read MoreHey there. I want to talk about something that goes much deeper than your workouts or meal plans. Everything you’re doing from an action standpoint, how you’re eating, how you’re exercising, it’s driven by something inside you. It’s tied to your relationship with yourself, because so many of us are carrying feelings and beliefs about who we are, and we use eating and exercise to cope with those feelings.
Read MoreHey there. I think one of the most slept on skills when it comes to living your forever active lifestyle is simply making your own food at home. And I’m not talking about elaborate meals that belong in a five-star restaurant or dishes worthy of viral Instagram posts. I’m talking about knowing what foods you like and figuring out how to prepare them in a way that makes you want to eat them regularly.
Read MoreHey there. Don’t believe everything that you think. Especially when it’s in the face of things you’re wanting to accomplish.
Your mind will fight you, especially at the beginning of things or if you’re restarting after a long break. I know this because I’ve been through it countless times myself. One of the biggest things that helps me is journaling. I write out the thoughts swirling around in my head, even when I feel like it won’t help much. But here’s the interesting part. Once you see those thoughts written down or typed out, you look at them differently.
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