All tagged one life

Hey there. There are moments when I catch myself getting lost in the details of progress. How much work have I done this week? How close am I to the next goal? How many steps did I get in today? These questions matter, but lately, I’ve been reminding myself to take a step back and just appreciate the fact that I can move. That I get to show up. That I get another day.

Hey there. I see it all the time and I know you do too. Social media is a story. At best, it props up the best elements of our life. At worst, it is a fake, surface level depiction of something that does not reflect reality. If you spend your time comparing your life to what you see scrolling through your feed, you are going to miss out on what is right in front of you. And eventually, you will be miserable.

Hey there. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that you can do anything you want in life. You are your own main character. That means you get to decide the plot twists, the direction, and the way you show up every single day. The people you worry are watching and judging? Most of them are too busy focusing on their own story to care about yours. And if they are spending time worrying about you, it usually comes from a place where their self-esteem is so low that it really doesn’t hold any weight in your life.

Hey there. For years I chased things I thought I was supposed to want. The job title, the number on the scale, the external approval. It took me a long time to realize that none of those things felt fulfilling because they weren’t really mine. They were expectations placed on me by others or by the version of myself that thought success meant looking a certain way.

Hey there. I used to spend so much time worrying about what other people thought of me. Every choice I made felt like it had to pass through the filter of someone else’s approval. But what I’ve realized is that when people disapprove of your life, it usually says a lot more about them than it does about you. Sometimes their disapproval has nothing to do with your choices at all. It may be that they don’t like their own life.

Hey there. I’ve heard the phrase “everything happens for a reason” more times than I can count. And while I understand the comfort that idea can bring, I don’t fully believe it. Life does teach us lessons, but not everything that happens has some grand reason behind it. Many times, it simply comes down to a choice. A choice we made, or a choice someone else made, that set things in motion.

Hey there. For much of my life I thought fitness was the destination. I believed that if I could just get to a certain weight, or build a certain level of strength, I would finally feel like the person I was supposed to be. What I’ve learned is that fitness is a great place to start the process of becoming who you choose to be, but it’s not the place to stay.

Hey there. When it comes to health, fitness, and life in general, the most important thing I’ve learned is that you have to create your own path. For years I tried to follow what others said was the right way. The diet plans, the quick fix workouts, the endless tips and tricks. And what I found was that none of it truly stuck, because it wasn’t built for me. It was built for someone else.

Hey there. You ever feel like you've wasted too much time to change? Like there's some invisible deadline for when you're supposed to have everything figured out? I think we all, at some point, buy into this idea that life has a set timeline. That we need to hit certain milestones at certain ages. And we stick with this belief… until we decide not to.

Hey there. There are a lot of things in life that we can’t control. I want to acknowledge that first because today, I want to focus on what we can control. We have the power to take action on the things that will actually change if we put in the effort. And beyond that, it’s about how we view this process. If we believe in ourselves, if we see ourselves as capable, that’s where real change begins.

Hey there. What do you really want for yourself? Not what others expect of you, not what society tells you is the “right” path, but what you truly want. It’s a big question, one that many people avoid because it forces them to confront the reality of their choices. But if you never take the time to ask yourself this, you might wake up years from now feeling stuck in a life that was never really yours.

Hey there. For the longest time, I believed I needed permission. Permission to take a new direction, to make a change, or to fully embrace the life I wanted to live. But the truth is, no one is coming to give you the green light. You don’t need anyone’s approval to start moving forward. You just need to decide.

Hey there. You have to have hope. No matter where you are in life right now, no matter what you’ve been through, please don’t lose hope. Maybe it’s been months or years since you felt like yourself. Maybe you’ve fought so hard against your own doubts that you’ve started to believe your dreams aren’t meant for you. I want to remind you…that spark inside you is still there.

Hey there. When you first start taking action, it’s easy to feel invisible. You might wonder if anyone notices the effort you’re putting in or if your work is making an impact. In those early stages, few, if any, people will pay attention. But here’s the truth: when you stick with it, keep showing up, and continue to put in the work, things begin to shift. Over time, more people will notice, not because you’re seeking their validation but because the consistency of your efforts speaks volumes.

Hey there. We often hear the advice to "stop caring what others think." On the surface, it sounds empowering—a call to ignore outside opinions and stand confidently in your own truth. But let’s be real: caring, at least a little, is part of being human. The key isn’t to stop caring entirely but to get to a place where you’re okay with not receiving approval from everyone.

Hey there. Life is a constant motion, and while the world keeps turning, so should we. That doesn’t mean we need to hustle endlessly without pause, but it does mean that progress, in all its forms, is vital. Whether we’re moving at full speed or taking a step back to refocus, the key is to keep moving forward.

Hey there. Life has a way of throwing challenges at us, testing our resolve and resilience at every turn. Whether it’s heartbreak, failure, loss, or uncertainty, we’ve all been through our own unique struggles. These moments shape us, push us, and often make us question our worth.

Hey there. Change is hard. No matter if the life you’re living serves your best interests or not, it’s familiar—and that familiarity can feel like safety. Humans crave certainty, and when change disrupts that certainty, it can bring frustration, anxiety, and even anger. But as uncomfortable as it is, change is often necessary to build a life that truly aligns with who you are.