All tagged body image

Rewriting Your Reflection

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Hey there. When I ask clients what they see in the mirror they usually describe a flaw before they describe a feature. I used to do the same thing. Years of comments about how I could look better if I tweaked this or shrank that taught me to scan for problems. Add the brutal body standards of the early two thousands and I became an expert at tearing myself down. Sound familiar? If so I want to invite you into a practice that feels strange at first yet becomes a daily anchor for calm confidence.

The Real Body Image Shift You Need

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Hey there. I want to remind you of something that can completely shift how you view your weight loss journey. You are your own body standard. Not the version of you from five years ago. Not someone you follow online. Not the expectations coming from the fitness industry. Just you.

That Voice in Your Head Was Never Yours

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Hey there. Let’s talk about the voice. You know the one. The voice that creeps in late at night when you're staring at the ceiling wondering why this is still so hard. That voice that tells you that you should have figured this out by now. That you’re still behind. That no matter how much weight you’ve lost or how hard you’ve worked, it’s not enough.

You Can Love Yourself and Still Want to Grow

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Hey there. I’ve talked with so many people who feel like they have to beat themselves up in order to make progress. Like they won’t grow unless they criticize everything they see in the mirror. And I get it. Because for most of us, that negative voice has been there for years. It becomes familiar. But just because it’s familiar doesn’t mean it’s helpful.

Reclaiming Your Reflection

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Hey there. There’s something I want to ask you. What have you missed out on because of how you feel about your body? Maybe you skipped a photo. Maybe you avoided a vacation meal or stressed about workouts while you were supposed to be relaxing. If you’ve been stuck in your head because of body image, I want you to know you’re not alone.

Choose to Love Yourself Now

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Hey there. I used to think the goal was to get to the “after.” Like once I hit a certain number on the scale or took that perfect transformation photo, everything would just click. I’d love my body. I’d feel confident. I’d finally be enough. But the truth is... even when I hit those numbers, that feeling didn’t show up the way I expected.

What Are You Really Seeing in the Mirror?

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Hey there. When you hear the term “body dysmorphia,” what comes to mind? For a lot of people, especially those going through a weight loss journey, it gets tossed around quickly. But body dysmorphic disorder is a real mental health condition, and it needs to be taken seriously. I’m not a therapist or a doctor, and most people you hear using this term online aren’t either. Still, I want to talk about the emotional side of this because how you feel about yourself matters.

From Self-Criticism to Self-Connection

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What do you see when you look in the mirror?

I’ve asked myself that question more times than I can count. And for years, the answer wasn’t great. I would pick myself apart, zoom in on every perceived flaw, and walk away feeling worse than I did before. The worst part? I thought that was normal.

You Are Your Own Body Standard

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Hey there. For years I chased body standards that were never meant for me. I compared myself to the images I saw in magazines, online, and even to the versions of me I thought I needed to become. And like many of you, I told myself that once I hit a certain weight or looked a certain way, I’d finally be happy.

That moment never came.

My Self-Worth Was Not in the Mirror

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Hey there. For years, I never felt like enough. No matter how lean I was, how defined my muscles looked, or how much my body changed, it was never enough. I remember being obsessed with body fat percentages. I carried one of those handheld testers around in the early 2000s when I worked at a gym, and I would check my readings constantly. Even when the numbers looked good, even when I knew I was walking around at a pretty lean ten to fifteen percent body fat, it still wasn’t enough. There was always someone leaner, someone more muscular, someone I thought looked better than me.

Your Worth Is Not in the Feed

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Hey there. I’ve been thinking a lot about how social media fits into our health and fitness journeys. Not just as a place to find workouts or get motivation, but how it actually affects the way we see ourselves. The scroll can feel endless. And most days, it's filled with reminders of what we’re not, what we’re not doing, and what we should be chasing.

Practicing Body Neutrality Daily

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Hey there. I’ve spent years unlearning what I thought I had to believe about my body. It used to be that every glance in the mirror became a chance to tear myself down. I’d start with my reflection and work inward, picking apart what made me different and assigning value—or lack of it—based on how I looked. But what if you didn’t do that anymore? What if you could quiet those thoughts instead?

How Fitness Marketing Skews Our Body Image

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Hey there. Fitness marketing has a way of making us believe that we should be constantly chasing an ideal body. The industry thrives on making us feel like we are out of control and then selling us solutions to fix that feeling. Whether it’s a diet plan, a workout program, or a supplement, the message is always the same, you need this to finally achieve the body you want.

Why You Should Curate Your Social Media Experience

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Hey there. Social media can be a tricky place when it comes to body image. With so many curated photos, highlight reels, and fitness transformations filling our feeds, it’s easy to feel like we don’t measure up. If scrolling makes you feel self-conscious, frustrated, or just not good enough, you’re not alone. But here’s the good news, you have control over your experience.

Becoming Your Own Body Standard

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Hey there. Body image should be personal. You should be your own body standard, not an idea created by someone else. Yet, throughout life, most of us have tried to conform to different beauty or fitness ideals without even realizing it. Where do these standards come from?

The Ghosts of Body Dysmorphia

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Hey there. Body dysmorphia is like a ghost that lingers, no matter how much you try to move forward. It’s something I’ve seen over and over in the fitness space. People lose weight, transform their bodies, and yet, when they look in the mirror, they still see their old selves staring back. It’s not just a passing thought. It’s a deep-seated perception that refuses to let go.

Appreciating Your Body Starts with Loving Yourself First

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Hey there. Here’s a truth that might be hard to hear but is absolutely essential: You can’t truly appreciate your body until you love yourself first. I know that sounds cliché, maybe even frustrating, especially if you’ve been working hard on your fitness journey and aren’t seeing the results you want emotionally. But it’s the foundation of real, lasting change. Everything starts from the inside out.

How I Learned to Appreciate My Body

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Hey there. Every body is unique…every single one. While we all share certain physical traits, it’s the little differences, the so-called "wrinkles," that make us who we are. Ironically, these are often the very things we fixate on and critique the most. If you’ve spent any time in the fitness and weight loss space, chances are you’ve scrutinized your body to the point of exhaustion, tearing yourself down over perceived imperfections.

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