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Hey there. For years, I’ve believed that the best way to approach life is from the inside out. That means starting with a connection to yourself before making decisions about your health, fitness, and everything else. When you take this approach, you’re not just following trends or reacting to outside pressures. You’re making choices based on what truly matters to you.
Hey there. When it comes to living an inside/out life, your mindset determines everything. Everything inside you leads to everything outside of you. And this calms the storm. You know the storm. When you focus on things outside of yourself and your capabilities, nothing is ever enough. No matter how much you achieve in health and fitness, your career, or your personal life, it never feels like enough if you are chasing external validation.
Hey there. When it comes to fitness, we’re often told what to do. We see the workouts, the meal plans, and the before-and-after pictures. But what we don’t see is the foundation that makes all of it stick. That’s why I believe in an inside-out approach to fitness. It’s not just about what actions you take. It’s about why you take them.
Hey there. I talk a lot about taking ownership of your life because it’s one of the most powerful shifts you can make. It’s easy to feel like life is just happening to you, that circumstances beyond your control are dictating everything. And to be fair, there are things we can’t control. But there are also plenty of things we can. When you decide that everything in your life…your actions, your mindset, your choices is your responsibility, things start to change.
Hey there. What I want for everyone, including you, is to be able to appreciate and love the body you are in while you put in the effort to change it. If you are exercising regularly and following an eating plan based on your preferences, your body is going to change. It may not look like someone else's, but it will evolve in a way that works for you.
Hey there. You ever feel like loving yourself is a concept that sounds good in theory, but when it comes to actually doing it, you hesitate? You’re not alone. For a lot of us, especially when we’re on a weight loss journey or trying to “better” ourselves, it feels like loving who we are right now is the exact opposite of what we should be doing. But what if I told you that loving yourself isn’t just a feel-good idea, it’s the foundation for real change?
Hey there. Here’s a truth that might be hard to hear but is absolutely essential: You can’t truly appreciate your body until you love yourself first. I know that sounds cliché, maybe even frustrating, especially if you’ve been working hard on your fitness journey and aren’t seeing the results you want emotionally. But it’s the foundation of real, lasting change. Everything starts from the inside out.
Hey there. Confidence isn’t something you wait to earn. It’s something you decide to have.
For so many people, confidence seems like this elusive thing, something that only happens once you've accomplished enough, proved yourself enough, or finally feel like you belong. But here’s the truth: confidence is a choice. It’s not built from a series of external wins. It’s built from an internal decision to trust yourself, right now.
Hey there. We live in a world that glorifies hustle. Going all in, pushing harder, and working around the clock is seen as the only way to achieve success. Here’s the thing…that mindset leads to burnout more often than it leads to results. And I’ve learned that the hard way, more times than I can count. 😅
Hey there. In the health and fitness space, there’s a message I keep coming back to because it’s the foundation of everything I do: Changing how you look on the outside will never give you the deep, lasting appreciation for yourself that you’re seeking. Sure, when you lose weight or build muscle, you’ll feel good for a while, but if you don’t work on your relationship with yourself, those changes won’t bring the self-love and confidence you truly want.
Hey there. Let’s talk about a feeling we’ve all faced. It creeps in when you don’t know what’s going to happen. Uncertainty, anxiousness, doubt…you know the ones. Here’s the thing, everyone feels it. The real difference lies in how you respond to it, and that response shapes where you’re headed.
Hey there. Want to know how you can figure out anything you want to do? It boils down to two essential steps: keeping your goals actionable and maintaining a calm, focused mindset. Simple, right? Let’s break these down because understanding and applying them can completely shift how you approach your goals and life in general.
Hey there. You have to have hope. No matter where you are in life right now, no matter what you’ve been through, please don’t lose hope. Maybe it’s been months or years since you felt like yourself. Maybe you’ve fought so hard against your own doubts that you’ve started to believe your dreams aren’t meant for you. I want to remind you…that spark inside you is still there.
Hey there. We all experience emotional pain—whether it's from life circumstances, self-doubt, or the relentless pressures we face. The question is, what do we do with that pain? For a long time, I internalized mine. I used it to tear myself down, piece by piece, from the inside out. Maybe you’ve done the same. Perhaps you’ve let your inner critic dictate how you see yourself, your worth, and your contributions to the world.
Hey there. Weight loss is often portrayed as a game, but few of us are ever told how to actually win. We’re handed a set of rules, strict routines, and lofty goals disguised as the ultimate solution. “Follow these steps, adopt this mindset, and want it badly enough,” they say. Yet the reality of winning this game is far simpler—and far more personal—than we’re led to believe.
Hey there. If there’s something in your life that you think you should be doing right now but aren’t, let me offer a perspective: you’re not making excuses—you’re making choices. And I say that as neutrally as possible. If you’re not doing something, it’s because you’re not ready to choose it yet. That’s not a flaw or a failure; it’s simply where you are right now.
