Hey there. I’ve read a lot of self-help and motivational books. For a few years, I was constantly looking for the one book that would finally flip the switch and change my life. I’d get excited, take in all the advice, feel inspired… and then a few days or weeks later, that fire would fizzle out.
If you’re reading these books for entertainment or to relax, awesome. They can be a great source of inspiration and ideas. But if you’re hoping that one book will change everything for you, I want to offer a different perspective.
The book might be a catalyst. It might introduce new ideas. But lasting change comes from reinforcement. One of the biggest shifts for me happened after reading AskGaryVee. It lit a spark, but what kept it burning was watching his videos, listening to his podcast, and then applying the message to my own life over and over again.
That’s where podcasts and community come in. They reinforce the message you’re trying to internalize. You hear similar stories and lessons again and again until you start to live it. The more voices you hear encouraging consistent effort and patience, the more it sticks.
Surrounding yourself with the right people also matters. I’ve built friendships with others who are working toward similar goals. We push each other, share energy, and reinforce the idea that showing up and doing the work matters more than chasing perfection.
Books are tools. They’re not the whole toolbox. You need reinforcement. You need community. You need real-life application. And you need time.
I don’t care if you’re in your 20s, 30s, or 50s. You still have time to figure things out. What matters most is that you start. Pick something you care about. Take action on it. Build a routine around it. Then surround yourself with people and messages that help you stay the course.
Self-help might be where it starts. But discipline, patience, and support are what actually move you forward.
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